I am unfortunate that we are not living together right now, but as we go to meet them or they come to meet us, we see them with the same aura. Many things are there to explain about my parents. The fact was that not only my father was of that type those days; almost every parent was of same kind.
New Era Children are Techno Savvy
When it comes to my children, the situation is different. When I have some trouble; to open a file or transfer file using Bluetooth, my 10 years old son comes to me and takes phone from my hand to transfer the file as it is a trifle for him. These days kids are super talented. They sometimes ask you a very serious question and suddenly they also find a better solution for that. Their minds are secular. They are not biased.
We learn many things from our kids. Buddy parenting is a way to know your kids well. They share each and everything with you. They help you when you are in trouble. Time has changed now. Buddy parenting means you should always with your kids. If you are authoritative, they will make a distance. Generally we find mothers are close to kids. Why? Because, kids feel comfortable with mothers than fathers.
Learn Even from Your Kids
We learn many things from kids. Children are innocent. They do not know the things which make them uncomfortable, every difference in society is made by the people of the society. I saw many times; my little daughter helping her mother in household works. I find my son give my laptop bag to me while I am ready to office. Be attached to your children. They pour lot of love to you. When I am unable to find the channel number of a particular channel, my son comes and press the remote button for that channel. I always thank him for remembering all those channel numbers. These tidbits are uncountable.
Simple word is that, be sensible to your child. Do not hurt them. They are part of your soul. You can guide them properly without being instructive, authoritative and aggressive. Simply listen to them, they will love you.
Be a Buddy Parent के अलावे इसे भी पढ़ें
- लक्ष्य निर्धारित कैसे करें- एक क्रियाकलाप
- अपनी गति बढाओ!
- टाइम मैनेजमेंट
- भाग्यवाद छोड़ें, कर्म करें, सफल बनें
- आलसी मत बनें
- भय नहीं – अभय बनो!
- कार्य की योजना का महत्व
- खुशनुमा जिन्दगी
- कई काम एक साथ न करें