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Before starting this post “Be a Buddy Parent” I recollected my childhood memories. How were my childhood days? How was I treated? What was the behavior of my father and mother those days? When I see my kids, there is a big difference between the two. The words of my father were rule for us. We have to obey him at any cost. His views were sometimes authoritative. We, the children, had no right to disobey those rules. When it comes to my mom, she was caring; still she is. She always took care of our little little things. She never forgot to feed me even when I was sleeping.

I am unfortunate that we are not living together right now, but as we go to meet them or they come to meet us, we see them with the same aura. Many things are there to explain about my parents. The fact was that not only my father was of that type those days; almost every parent was of same kind.

New Era Children are Techno Savvy

When it comes to my children, the situation is different. When I have some trouble; to open a file or transfer file using Bluetooth, my 10 years old son comes to me and takes phone from my hand to transfer the file as it is a trifle for him. These days kids are super talented. They sometimes ask you a very serious question and suddenly they also find a better solution for that. Their minds are secular. They are not biased.

Once I heard two kids talking. One of them was my daughter. Her friend, Afsana, was a Muslim girl. She was discussing the wars between good and evil. She said – the evil people were so strong that the good people of my religion were in a defeat- like situation. Suddenly my daughter suggested her- “why did not your good people take the help of Hanuman jee? He is very powerful god of mine.” I was surprised to hear the answer of my daughter. Indirectly it was a lesson for me too. We never think beyond our religion.

We learn many things from our kids. Buddy parenting is a way to know your kids well. They share each and everything with you. They help you when you are in trouble. Time has changed now. Buddy parenting means you should always with your kids. If you are authoritative, they will make a distance. Generally we find mothers are close to kids. Why? Because, kids feel comfortable with mothers than fathers.

Learn Even from Your Kids

We learn many things from kids. Children are innocent. They do not know the things which make them uncomfortable, every difference in society is made by the people of the society. I saw many times; my little daughter helping her mother in household works. I find my son give my laptop bag to me while I am ready to office. Be attached to your children. They pour lot of love to you. When I am unable to find the channel number of a particular channel, my son comes and press the remote button for that channel. I always thank him for remembering all those channel numbers. These tidbits are uncountable.

Simple word is that, be sensible to your child. Do not hurt them. They are part of your soul. You can guide them properly without being instructive, authoritative and aggressive. Simply listen to them, they will love you.

New Era Children are Techno Savvy

Learn Even from Your Kids

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